YOU ARE SO RIGHT!
Our Topic for Discussion on You Tube this Tuesday at 6pm, link below!
How good does it feel when you know you are right?
There is such satisfaction when you win an argument isn't there?
Don't you Love having the last word?
Feels So Good!
After all you know what you know!
HERE'S THE THING...
When we are fully realised, we don't need to be right or defend ourselves! Needing to be right, have the last word, are signals of low self- worth, why?
Because we need that confirmation.
Needing confirmation, affirmation may not strike you as anything to worry about. What happens however, when we establish harmful paradigms and keep recreating them to be Right? We need to be right more than, for instance. allowing someone to love us.
It may be our highest value, yet we cannot grasp it, because we hold a conviction that, for instance "I can't trust anyone". Hence we create situations to prove that to ourselves and there lies the problem, because when our beliefs stop us from having the life we deserve, it is time to make a change!
Nothing changes unless we change!
"If you want to make minor changes in your life, work on your behaviour. If you want significant quantum breakthroughs, work on your paradigms." Stephen R. Covey
ALL IT TAKES IS TO BE HONEST
As long as we blame others, we will keep repeating the same patterns and be right. So take stock my friends and an honest look at you and you are half way there! It is All about You!
Think about your highest values, priorities and if they are more important than being right, what would you invest in yourself?
More on You Tube Live, join in at 6pm tomorrow!